To have a child is the first task mandated by the Creator to all living creatures particularly man. There are several approaches to having a better offspring which will eventually lead to having a better world in the future. Man just forgets how to have a simplified multiplication.
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Many are worried about the future. The times have changed, the people’s attitude have changed, the younger generation are different and it’s all for the worst. Many psychologist, physicist, scientist and every known science have studied and concluded that there are really dramatic changes in all aspects of our earthly existence but the reason behind these changes varies according to the conclusion of each known field of expertise.
In paranormal level where we study beyond the known science and beyond the given fact, we also have some conclusions and information why we are into the worst transformation of the world and of mankind.
In biblical proportion for instance, if we take a closer look at Cain and Abel, the first two offspring of Adam and Eve, we can see that even though they have the same parents, most probably the same food, lifestyle and environment to affect their character, they are two different men .If we dig deeper, we would see that the only difference between them lies during the pregnancy period. The condition and emotions of the parents, most especially the mother, during the time of conception, the duration of pregnancy and eventually his birth greatly affects the child.
Mothers living in a happier and lovelier environment produce better babies as compared to those mothers experiencing so much stress — both emotional and physical stress. It is a fact that problems will arise in every couple although it is on how the mothers take on these problems that makes the difference. The more the mother is affected by these problems, the more the baby suffers. The character and attitude of the offspring will be greatly affected by her emotions.
Then, as a general guideline for a better pregnancy and a better quality of babies in the future, let us study the holistic approach based on the deeper understanding of human creation:
HOLISTIC CONCEPTION:
a. There must be so much love between the couple trying to conceive a baby.
b. The union of the body, mind and spirit must be experienced during intercourse rather than just feeling the obligation of fertilizing the egg of the future mother.
c. The woman must be 100% sure that she wants a baby from the man she chooses so she can produce a better offspring since she will be carrying it in her womb. Even a fraction of a doubt will cause great imperfection on the said offspring.
d. Having a child must be considered as a blessing from heaven and not a problem that must be faced.
DURING PREGNANCY:
1. Free yourself of fear. Usually, mothers-to-be fear too many things that it stirs stress for her and her baby. Fears of having a miscarriage, birth defect, the pain of delivery, physical transformation of the body, and the thought of being left by the man she loves are common to mothers-to-be. The more she thinks of these, the more she stresses herself thus affecting the baby she is carrying.
2. Stay away from harmful chemicals. As of today, a lot of women casually take alcohol and cigarettes. These chemicals poison the child’s mental and physical growth. Taking medicines during pregnancy must also be limited or better yet avoided for it damages the immune system of the baby while still in the womb.
3. She must be comforted and assured by the man she loves. Only he can give her the comfort and assurance she and the baby needs. His mere presence and the constant caresses he extends to the mother and the baby in the womb are enough to show his love and support.
4. In-laws, which ever side, bring stress. In-laws showing too much affection or rejection of one of the couple and those that go beyond the limited and allowable space for in-laws bring stress without them knowing that they are affecting their grandchild’s development. If that is the case, it would be healthier to have a limited relationship with them for after all, you are now creating a family of your own.
DURING THE FIRST HOUR OF THE BABY:
a. It is the most important day of pregnancy, the day she will deliver the baby on earth. It is necessary that the father is present during the labor hour of the mother. He alone can give comfort to the woman and nobody else. His presence alone will bring strength and courage to the woman thus making the delivery of the baby a painless and stress-less process. Fortunately, there are now hospitals that allow the father to be with the mother during the most important time of their family life.
b. A prayer of thanksgiving must be the first thing that the couple must do after delivery. The blessing of new life is God-given and it is just right to have Him praised for this.
c. The love and bonding of the mother and father must be shown to the baby and the baby will surely feel the familial bonding he or she will have for the rest of his/her life.
Many medical ways and approaches have been proven successful in producing an offspring but which is of lesser quality as compared to those who conceived without stressing themselves and felt so much love in the duration of their pregnancy.
The young generations now are more focused on themselves and of survival. The trust on what love can bring to a couple and their children is almost lost. The beauty of having faith on what love can bring lessens as each day passes. The main objective of man now is his necessity to live for today.
It’s not too late to have a holistic pregnancy and a better world. One should experience having a faithful conception and we will definitely have a better generation of man. Let love rule the partnership between man and wife to pro-create better children. Remember, whatever we have today, does not exist yet during the earlier times but people then produce better men and women. Have faith, trust and lots of love then the mystical and holistic pregnancy will be yours, the same way God wants us to have.
